4 Stages of Lust, Most People Stop At 2 (Level 1)

Have you ever met someone and liked them immediately? This strong feeling is called lust. It is normal and exciting, but it is not the same as love. Lust usually happens in four stages. The first stage is attraction. You notice a person’s look or voice. Your brain feels happy and energized. However, you do not know them well yet. You are attracted to their image, not their real personality. The second stage is infatuation. You think about this person all the time. You might feel nervous waiting for their messages. Often, you imagine they are perfect, even if you don't know the truth. The third stage is the peak. Your feelings become very intense. You want to be close to them. Sometimes, you might ignore problems or bad behavior because you like them so much. The final stage is clarity. The strong excitement calms down. You start to see the person clearly. Now, you can decide if you really want to be with them. Understanding these stages helps you make smart choices about relationships.