How To ACTUALLY Find The Right Person For You (Level 1)

Many people think they should date the people they feel most attracted to. However, this is not always a good idea. Sometimes, our brains trick us. In psychology, there is a word for this: projection. When we have bad feelings about ourselves, we hide them. Then, we look for those hidden feelings in other people. For example, a person who feels broken inside might only date people who have many problems. They want to fix their partner instead of fixing themselves. How can we stop this bad cycle? First, we must look at our own hidden feelings. We need to accept our true selves. Second, we must understand that strong attraction does not equal a healthy relationship. We should choose partners who are kind and actually match well with us.