You Will Always Reject Love Until You Do This... (Level 1)

Many people think everyone wants love. But this is not always true. If a person had a bad childhood, they might run away from love when they grow up. They do not feel safe when someone is kind to them. Instead, they destroy their relationships. They do this in two ways. First, they pick partners who are mean or cold. They stay with them even when they are hurt. Second, they leave partners who are very nice. A kind partner makes them feel nervous. They think the nice person wants to control them. It can take many years for someone to see this bad pattern. They might go through many broken relationships first. If this sounds like you, you can change. You must learn to accept kind people. You can talk to a doctor or therapist. You can stop the bad pattern and finally find a happy love.